Janie J: Encouraging Women To Live Their Best Lives.

Are YOU living a life by default?

If so, maybe it's time to take a stand.

I refuse to live a life by default.
A life where decisions are made all around me.
By someone else.
Where I am a victim of circumstance.
Like a tree blowing in the wind.
Hither and fro.
No control of its own.

I refuse to live my life under someone's down-turned eyes and up-turned nose.
I refuse to live up to another's definition of what my life should be.
I refuse to revert to the default position.
I refuse to tell myself, "Oh well, it isn’t meant to be."

I refuse to live a life of default.
I'll scream it from the rooftops till my voice is hoarse.
I'll tell whomever is listening, but I only need to convince myself.

It's MY life and I will take charge and I vow NEVER to live life by default.

Janie J

 

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  • “Janie has been an inspiration to me. Her no-nonsense, no-fluff approach to finding the most important ways to make the biggest impact on her own life has helped me grow in my life too.”
    Beth Bridges
    The Networking Motivator
  • “‘Live the Life You Have Imagined’ covered everything I needed to be reminded of as I continue life's journey in an easy, concise format that will allow me to go back to it over and over for direction and inspiration.”
    Pat Birkle
  • “Janie, You are my inspiration! I have enjoyed watching your life grow as you share your best life with others and I can hardly wait to read your next book.”
    Karen Bowser
  • “Janie's writing is engaging and entertaining from the start. She challenges you to reflect on daily choices and make/or remake future decisions.”
    Susan Zumwalt

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